Marcus Buckingham, in his book Go Put Your Strengths to Work: 6 Powerful Steps to Achieve Outstanding Performance
Buckingham used this story to illustrate his point that you can be great at something even if it doesn't allow you to express your most personal "talents". Buckingham defines "talent" differently than I'm used to thinking of it. For him, a "talent" is not an ability. It is more of a preference or a pattern. Based on identical twin studies, these patterns start at birth that only get MORE pronounced with age. If you have what he calls the "talent" of "empathy", this doesn't necessarily mean you have an amazing ability to empathize. It means, instead, that if you are doing something that allows you to apply "empathy" to the task, you're going to love doing the task. You will get totally focused on it, losing track of time, and--looking back on what you did--you'll feel immense satisfaction.
The swimmer was a "success" at swimming by any external measure. He had a shelf full of swimming trophies. But he couldn't apply his best "talents" while swimming. Therefore, it gave him no joy or passion. Swimming was not a "strength" for him. From the equation I shared in yesterday's post, which comes from this same book, Strength = Talent + Skills + Knowledge. The boy had swimming Skills + Knowledge, but it engaged none of his Talents, so he had no passion for it--it brought him misery rather than joy. He couldn't combine all three of these into a strength until he picked up a guitar.
The future Hall of Fame tennis player, Andre Agassi, may be an even more amazing example of being great at something that you hate. I only read the first few chapters of his book, Open: An Autobiography (Vintage)
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